Because the messy middle is where real change happens

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Healing Your Inner Child
The version of you who still wants to feel safe, seen and understood. Here, we learn to listen to them, reconnect with joy, and rebuild the confidence that got lost along the way.
Researching Resilience for the Next Generation
I’m exploring why resilience has changed and what we can do about it. I share insights, studies and lived experience to help us understand ourselves… and support the young people coming after us.
Chasing Greatness (Without Losing Yourself)
There’s a part of you that knows you’re meant for more.
We talk about what holds you back, what’s possible, and what it means to take the next brave step, even when you’re scared.

Behind It All
I didn’t plan to rebuild my life, but life forced my hand.
In 2017, a rare brain illness left me navigating double vision, blinding pain and the fear I might lose my sight. I healed slowly, stubbornly but carried on surviving instead of living.
Then in 2023, grief changed everything. Losing my nephew cracked my whole world open. Therapy became a lifeline and somewhere in the mess, I finally started meeting myself for the first time.
I learned how childhood shapes adulthood.
How survival mode can look like “functioning”.
And how breaking can sometimes become the beginning.
Now I’m sharing the journey; the healing, the resilience, the lessons, and the bravery so you don’t have to wait for a wakeup call to change your life.
You can start now.
In tiny steps.
In imperfect ways.
In your own time.

This isn’t just a blog, It’s a community for anyone who…
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Feels stuck between who they were and who they want to become.
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Wants to understand their inner world.
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Is tired of just “coping”.
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Craves a life that feels more like them.
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Wants to feel hopeful, grounded and less alone.
You don’t have to have it all together, you just have to be here.
Join The Journey




![Dusting off the stomping cobwebs, ready for a big year of walking!
📍 Belchford and Fulletby Circular
🗺 Lincolnshire Wolds
Perfect for the boys, only had to be on lead for 2 short stints on the road 👌🏼 some good hills to get us back into the flow for spring!
Can tell it was the boys first bigger walk back, took them an hour to settle when we got home, think we had some achey paws from running for 2hrs straight. 🙃
[They probably did about 20k to my 8k haha]
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